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Should I Cosign For a Loan?

By //  by Khaleef Crumbley

A friend or family member needs a loan, but their credit score is not high enough (due to terrible or no credit history, or massive credit card debt), or they don’t have a large enough down payment or some other reason. So they come to you and ask you to be a cosigner on their loan.

 

What Does It Mean To Be A Cosigner?

To be a  “cosigner”, simply means that you agree to assume the responsibility of another person’s debt if they are unable to pay it. For example, if you are a cosigner on your brother’s $20k car loan, you have now agreed to pay the bank back that $20k (or whatever is left at the time of default) if your brother is not able to pay it back.

Many people will face this dilemma at one point in their lives. In fact, many people will actually cosign for loans even when they do not feel comfortable doing it. It is usually due to not wanting to be the bad guy, or is sometimes a genuine attempt to help someone. This is often viewed as a way to help out someone in need – such as a responsible, young person who just needs a chance to display or prove their credit worthiness; or a way to assist your child at the beginning of their “independent life”. But is this a wise thing to do?

What Does The Bible Say About Being A Cosigner?

Proverbs 17:18 tells us that,

A man lacking in sense pledges and becomes guarantor in the presence of his neighbor.

Right away we see that the bible describes one who becomes a cosigner on a loan as “senseless“! We can see that it is not a wise thing to make a pledge based on someone else’s ability to pay back a loan.

We also see such council in Proverbs 22:26,

Do not be among those who give pledges, among those who become guarantors for debts.

Not only are we instructed not to cosign for a loan, but we are also shown some of the dangers of doing so… Proverbs 11:15 tells us that:

He who is a guarantor for a stranger will surely suffer for it, but he who hates being a guarantor is secure.

So, we are actually told that we will “surely suffer” if we decide to pledge ourselves for another person’s debt; and that one way to stay secure is to “hate being a guarantor“! Those are very strong words to describe what has become such a common practice today.

Also in Proverbs 20:16 we find these words,

Take his garment when he becomes surety for a stranger; and for foreigners, hold him in pledge.

It was common to pledge a garment as security for a loan, but – according to Exodus 22:26-27 and Deuteronomy 24:10-13 – that garment had to be returned by sundown.

The idea here is that one who is foolish enough to pledge himself for the debt of a stranger will most likely never be paid back; so the one making the loan should demand the cosigner’s garment as security for the loan.

This shows the senseless and unpredictable nature of pledging your possessions or your life based on another person’s ability or willingness to pay their debts.

Also, one question that must be asked is, “Why does this person need a cosigner?”. The most basic reason is that their bank does not believe that they will pay back the loan.

They use their own experience, a few calculations and the potential borrower’s history with loans (usually expressed on their credit report) to make their decision regarding the loan.

When they request a cosigner they are basically saying, “We don’t trust this person to be able to pay us back, but if YOU are willing to take all the risk then we will give him the money!

What Should You Do If You Have Already Become A Cosigner?

Proverbs 6:1-5 gives us additional instruction. This time however, the instruction is given to one who has already pledged himself on behalf of someone else:
My son, if you have become surety for your neighbor, have given a pledge for a stranger
If you have been snared with the words of your mouth, have been caught with the words of your mouth
Do this then, my son, and deliver yourself; Since you have come into the hand of your neighbor; go, humble yourself, and importune your neighbor.
Give no sleep to your eyes, nor slumber to your eyelids;
Deliver yourself like a gazelle from the hunter’s hand and like a bird from the hand of the fowler.

As we can see from the strong language in this passage, it is a serious matter to pledge yourself on behalf of another. This is because you have essentially given up control of something that God has given to you as a stewardship, and have become “snared” by your pledge.

This situation is so serious that you must do everything that you can to free yourself from this arrangement and gain back control of your God-given resources. Look at how strong the language is here; you are told to “deliver yourself” and not to sleep until you have freed yourself (see Proverbs 22:7)! You are to act as a gazelle  or bird that is about to lose their life to the hunter!

So, if you are in this situation, it should be your highest priority to free yourself from this before you “surely suffer” (Proverbs 11:15; cf. Genesis 43:9, Genesis 44:32-33).

What can you do instead if you want to help?

If you still want to help while obeying God’s word regarding cosigning, there are a few things that you still can do.

Give Them An Interest-Free Loan:

If you know the person is in need, this is one way to help them that will honor God. Proverbs 28:8 assures us that,

He who increases his wealth by interest and usury gathers it for him who is gracious to the poor.

According to Deuteronomy 23:19-20, it was against the law for an Israelite to charge interest to fellow Jews (of course, loans were only to be requested in times of extreme need and poverty – not to fund frivolous, sinful spending like we see today), but many violated this command. As we see here, giving someone in need a loan and not charging interest is a way that you can assist the one in need and please God.

Give them the money that they need.

Proverbs 19:17 tells us that,

One who is gracious to a poor man lends to the Lord, and He will repay him for his good deed.

If you are able, giving your money to one in need – and only expecting repayment from the Lord – is another way to assist a brother in need and honor God with your finances.

Final Thoughts:

As mentioned earlier, since the bible teaches that debt is slavery (Proverbs 22:7), borrowing should only be done when one has a basic need that cannot be met by their income. It was usually a short-term loan, and the Israelites were commanded to forgive all debt every seven years (see Deuteronomy 15:1-15).

Much of the borrowing that we see today represents a person’s desire to live above their means, and I do not believe that type of borrowing (or giving) is what God is speaking of. Hopefully, I will have a chance to address this in much detail in a future article.

So overall we see that God is completely against the idea of one becoming a cosigner for the debt of another, even if we are really seeking to be a blessing to someone in need. However, the bible does teach us other ways in which we can assist others.

I mentioned stewardship earlier. I realize that this may not be a term or concept that is familiar to many modern readers, but this is a concept that God expects us all to understand. A steward is one who manages another person’s property, finances or other affairs. Here are several articles that do a good job of describing the concept of stewardship:

  • http://onemoneydesign.com/blog/2010/01/10/what-the-bible-says-about-money-financial-stewardship/
  • http://www.biblemoneymatters.com/2010/04/financial-stewardship-the-forgotten-component.html

I would love to hear your thoughts on cosigning – even better would be your experiences with it. If you have any questions on this or other concepts, please leave your comment below.

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Filed Under: Bible, Biblical Finance, Debt Management, Personal Finance Tagged With: bible teaching, bibles, borrowing, car loans, co signing, cosigner, cosigners, credit, credit card debt, credit history, credit score, culture, debt, ethics, finance, God, Loans, proverbs, stewardship, the bible, usury

A Few Tips To Better Understanding Loans

By //  by guest

[The following is a guest post explaining the various terms used concerning loans, so that you can make a more informed decision when borrowing money.]

Deciding that you need to apply for a loan of any sort can come at a traumatic and hard time for anyone. And yet once you have decided to take that step you are confronted with a wall of buzz words and catch phrases that simply don’t mean anything to you.

Follow this plain speaking guide below to understand for certain what type of loan you might require.

Loan Sign

Unsecured Vs Secured 

Loans fall into two categories here and are always one or the other. A secured loan is one that is secured against something that you already own. For example you might take out a loan that is secured on your car. This means that if you default on payments the loan company may seek to claim ownership of your vehicle instead to make up for the missed payments.

An unsecured loan is one that is not tied to any assets, these tend to be short term and for smaller amounts than secured loans.

Short Term Vs Long Term 

Again loans are always one of these two categories, either short or long term. This are relatively self explanatory expressions with short term loans being repaid over a much shorter time frame and long term loans being held over a longer time. Short term loans tend to be for smaller amounts such as an overstretched month or small purchase.

Long term loans tend to be larger and for one of purchases of a substantial nature, the most common of course being a mortgage which is a long term loan to buy a house.

Guarantor Loans

Traditionally those people with bad credit or low wages have not been able to take out loans. However, it is now possible for these (and others) to get a guarantor loan which is a loan that another person guarantees will get paid.

In essence this means that if you default on the loan then they become liable for the repayment.

Open Ended Vs Close Ended

A closed end loan is simply one that as you pay back the debt decreases but it gives you no available credit for re-borrowing. An open ended loan is one that as you pay back money you gain credit which allows you to re-borrow again and again up to the total you originally borrowed.

This means that your debt can go both up and down.

So now you’ve got the basics, hopefully you feel a bit more confident about finding out your next step.

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Filed Under: Loans Tagged With: borrowing, credit, lending, Loans, Personal Finance

Sponsored Video – When Credit Cards Can Help You

By //  by Khaleef Crumbley

The following post has been sponsored by Capital One, but all thoughts & experiences are my own. In fact, the great thing is that I’ve been a very happy customer of Capital One for years – with my business account (the account/card mentioned in the video below)!

As most of you already know, I’m no stranger to expensive car repairs. Keep in mind that anything over about $150 is expensive in my mind (one of the consequences of being broke and in debt). Well, we had to spend another $600 recently – this time on our SUV. Since we are trying to use every extra penny to pay off our debt and also build up an emergency savings account, we were putting off the repairs until they were absolutely necessary.

We had to get the air temperature door actuator replaced on our Ford Explorer – apparently, this is a common problem. We were originally told that it would cost about $750; mainly due to the labor involved – the center console and part of the dashboard had to be removed. Going through the winter without any heat is difficult in New Jersey, so once the temperature dropped down to the low 20s consistently (hitting the teens on a couple of days), we knew we couldn’t put it off any longer.

We have a credit card that is dedicated for car repairs. If our repair bill is over $299, then we have 6 months to pay off the balance before any interest is charged. So, in this case, our credit card has saved us from prematurely depleting our emergency fund or taking from our monthly budget, while allowing us to put heat in our vehicle!

We definitely plan to pay off the credit card before the 6 months are up – something that we have done each time we’ve used it – so we aren’t expecting to pay any interest for this loan. If we aren’t able to save enough in the 6 months by reducing our expenses (not likely since we don’t have many variable expenses), then we will still be in a better position to take money from our savings.

If we weren’t in debt, we would probably use credit cards for everything. We already use it for any online purchase (for security) or any other payment where we aren’t completely comfortable (like some gas stations, restaurants, etc.). Between the added security, the rewards, and the possible cash back, I am a big fan of credit cards.

Now obviously, this love only goes as far as the benefit gained combined with the responsibility of the user. To be fair, this can be said about most good things. Too much or a misuse of a good thing can easily make it detrimental. Someone once said that a credit card is like fire…useful, but handle with care.

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Filed Under: Credit Cards Tagged With: A Credit Card, business, capital one, credit, credit card, Credit Cards, Debits And Credits, debt, Emergency Fund, finance, Personal Finance, personal finances, spending, using credit cards, video

Which Debt Should You Pay Off First? It’s NOT What You Think

By //  by Kevin M

Nearly everyone on the web and in the financial press is telling us to get out of debt. Get out so you can save more, so you can retire early, so you can improve your credit score, so you can just get out of debt. But what if you have several debts—credit cards, a car loan, an installment loan (or two), a student loan and a mortgage. Which debt should you pay off first? Or does it even matter?

I think it does, in fact, I think it matters a whole lot. Some loans are just more…dangerous…than other loans, and need to be paid off sooner. This is especially true if you’re struggling financially. You should make a priority to pay off the loans that have the greatest potential to cause you the greatest problems in the event you can’t pay them any longer.

What Debt Pay First

Which Debt To Pay First?

Here’s my attempt at establishing that priority, and the reasons why for each. Feel free to disagree!

1. Car Loans

Most people start paying off debt with their credit cards, but I disagree. A car loan is a secured loan, which means that if you stop making the payments for any reason the car will be repossessed by the lender. If you hit on hard times and can’t pay your bills, the last thing you need to have happen is to have your car taken away.

You need your car to commute to your job, to run your business and to live your life. If it’s gone, you’re ability to pay your other debts will be gone with it.

Maybe this is just my thinking, but a car loan is really the most “strategic debt” that you have. A debt chain reaction will be set off if you lose your car, one that you may not be able to recover from any time soon. Get your car free and clear as soon as you can, then you’ll have time to deal with other debts.

2. Other Secured Loans

These loans could be debts taken to buy furniture, household appliances or to replace major components of your home, like a furnace or central air conditioner. And like a car loan, they’re secured and that’s why you want to pay them off ahead of unsecured debts. If you fail to make your payments for any reason, the lender will be able to take the collateral from you.

That may not be a problem if the collateral is furniture or a boat—you can live without those. But if it’s your computer that you use for business, or your air conditioner in the summer time, life will get ugly in a hurry.

These are worthy of being paid off right behind your car loan.

3. Student Loans

This is a sticky subject. Because they tend to be large and generally carry low interest rates, most people prefer to leave them alone and take every one of the ten, 15 or 20 years they have to pay them. But that’s not always the best course of action.

Though we may not think of it this way, it is a reality that student loans are unsecured debt. Even though they’re typically the size of car loans or even larger, there’s no asset beneath them that can be sold to pay them off if you get into financial trouble. Worse, they can’t be discharged in bankruptcy. In fact, except under certain very limited circumstances, you can’t settle them with the lenders in the way you might be able to with credit cards. For that reason, paying off your student loans deserves a higher priority than for credit cards.

4. Credit Cards

This is everyone’s favorite payoff! And why not? Credit cards are really annoying, at least when it comes time to pay them! But at the same time they’re aren’t as threatening as any of the above loans if you can’t pay them.

Sure, credit card lenders have remedies they can pursue against you, like nuking your credit, torturing you with collection calls, charging default interest rates and implementing judgments and garnishments. But they can’t take away your livelihood or kick you out of your home—that lowers them in the pay off hierarchy.

Usually, you can also settle your credit card accounts for less than what you owe, and there are even agencies—some of them non-profits—who will help you arrange this. In addition, though lenders can seek legal remedies against you, they often avoid going too far lest they push you into bankruptcy protection. Credit card lenders don’t do very well when that happens.

The popular “debt snowball” method really is the best if you have multiple credit cards. Pay off the smallest one first, then work your way up to the bigger ones. Each little one you pay frees up more money to pay off the bigger ones.

5. Mortgages

The reason for putting mortgages in last place? It’s typically your biggest debt and it will take many years to pay it off early. Also, even when you start paying it off, your mortgage won’t go away any time soon. Your house payment will remain fixed until the mortgage is completely paid off, as in zero balance. Since that will take many years to accomplish, the mortgage should be a low priority.

[Is it better to rent or own a home? <–What do you think?]

A couple of other things to consider in connection with a mortgage, one being that the payment is paying for something tangible—the use of your home. You’d have a rent payment if you didn’t own your home, so it’s not like the mortgage payment is something extra or extravagant. There’s also the tax benefit of having a mortgage. Since you get a break on your income taxes as a result of having your mortgage, paying it off should be less urgent than paying off debt that has no tax advantage.

Finally, if you plan on selling your home in the foreseeable future, there’s probably no point in working to pay down the mortgage. It will be paid off when you sell the house.

Is this debt pay off priority a bit unconventional? Probably. But when it comes to personal finance, I think it’s always worth looking at things from outside the box.

What to you think the priority should be when it comes to paying off debt?

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Filed Under: Debt Management Tagged With: a debt, car loan, credit, credit card, credit score, debt, debt credit cards, debt pay, debt to pay, Economics, finance, financial economics, financial ruin, Loans, mortgage loan, pay first, pay off debt, Personal Finance, secured loan, starting pay, unsecured debt

4 Reasons Why I Will Not File For Bankruptcy

By //  by Khaleef Crumbley

Most of the people who I talk to have debt. Debt is one of the major reasons behind this country’s economic growth over the past 40 or 50 years. Many people use credit cards to buy gas, computers, clothing, and a host of other items. On top of that, many people will borrow money to buy furniture, education, cars, and houses at some point in their life. It has pretty much become a way of life in this country, and I am no different.

When counseling clients (or just speaking with friends & acquaintances) about their finances, I will sometimes mention that I am currently paying off over $100,000 in debt. Oftentimes, the topic of bankruptcy will come up. They want to know why someone who doesn’t own a home, or other expensive assets, wouldn’t simply file for bankruptcy and get a “fresh start”.

Why I Will Not File For Bankruptcy

There are four basic reasons that I have for choosing not to file for bankruptcy (for the record, my wife agrees with this decision, but I will just speak of myself in this article)…

Integrity (I Gave My Word)

The main reason why I won’t file for bankruptcy is because of my word. When I signed up for all of those loans, I not only received the money (or line of credit), but I also received an obligation to repay that money according to the terms of the various agreements!

All of those agreements have a few things in common. I asked (sometimes begged) for money, they said ‘yes’ as long as I agreed to pay the money back, I gave them my word by signing a contract, I gladly spent the money, and now I’ve been paying it back every since.

By signing those agreements I put my word and integrity on the line. If I try to get out of those obligations, I will fail to keep my word and end up dishonoring God in the process!

To me, that is the strongest argument against filing for bankruptcy. I knew exactly what I was getting into when I signed those agreements, and I have an obligation to pay them back. It really bothers me when I see people trying to weasel their way out of an arrangement which they not only agreed to, but from which they also greatly benefited! They enjoyed all of the benefits of the arrangement, but when it came time to “pay the piper”, they claim that they should not be held responsible to keep their word! I don’t want to be one of those people if I can help it.

Protection Against Making The Same Mistakes

I have known plenty of people who have either filed for bankruptcy or have taken out debt consolidation loans, and have gone right back to their old habits once their credit cards were cleared. It takes time for most people to change their horrible money habits, and taking the time to pay off debt in a more conventional manner can give one a chance to develop good financial practices.

By not taking the easy way out, I have been forced to develop and revise a budget, look for ways to reduce my expenses, try to develop other streams of income, and set guidelines for evaluating purchases. Had I been given a clean slate directly after feeling the full weight of my debt, I may not have acknowledged and changed my horrible financial habits, which got me into this mess in the first place (most of our debt is from student loans, but we made some bad decisions along the way as well).

This concept not only works with finances, but it also works with our health, and even our ability to learn. Going on a quick, fad diet may help us drop weight pretty quickly, but it is usually harder to maintain the weight loss once you return to a more normal way of life. Likewise, it is much more beneficial to study a subject over time in order to let the foundational topics sink into our thinking, and then build upon that. If we decide to cram a day or two before we need to use the information, it will be much harder to incorporate it into our normal thought process.

So, by forcing myself to take the hard way out, I not only can identify what I did wrong, but I get a chance to develop a system that will benefit my family for decades after we become debt free!

Satisfaction (I Love A Challenge)

As I think about it, I think that even if I wasn’t convinced of my obligation to repay the loans, I would still choose to pay them back. I love a challenge, and having to pay off over $100k in debt is definitely a challenge!

I want the satisfaction of being able to look back over time and seeing the amount of progress that I have made. This is the same reason why I would never have surgery to lose weight (besides the very serious health risks) – I want to get into shape through discipline and making wise choices!

I want to pay off debt by making sacrifices, exercising discipline, making wise choices, and honoring all of my commitments. Since it won’t be easy to pay off this much debt – especially with one income – I feel that it is more of a challenge than if I only owed $10k or so.

To Serve As An Example

I also feel that I can point to my own situation to be an example for others in my situation. I managed to pay off a huge chunk of debt when I was younger (and making a little more than minimum wage), and I can look to that experience to give me confidence that I can do it again.

I want others (especially some of my clients) to see that I was able to overcome a mountain of debt, and avoid filing for bankruptcy to do it, and have them be able to use a small part of my experience as motivation. If I am telling them not to take the easy way out, I want to be able to assure them that it is worth it!

For some reason we humans are better able to take advice from someone if they have been through what we are currently going through. So if I want to convince someone that bankruptcy isn’t the answer, I need to be able to show them that the alternatives work!

Is This The Only “Right” Decision?

Keep in mind that this article is more about expressing my views on the subject, rather than giving a generic, one-size-fits-all piece of financial advice. Every situation is different, but for the most part, bankruptcy is a quick fix with a huge downside.

Of course there are people who are so crippled by their debt, that bankruptcy seems to be the only option to stop them from being homeless. Each case is different, but please be sure to make this decision with a lot of prayer, reflection, and wise counsel.

I plan to take a more detailed look at the subject of bankruptcy, from a biblical point of view in the near future. You may be surprised by how much the bible has to say about this topic, even though the actual word is never used.

Reader Questions

  1. Have you even been in a situation where filing for bankruptcy seemed to be the best solution?
  2. If you refused to file, what was your reason?
  3. Have you ever declared bankruptcy? If so, was it a struggle to make that decision?
  4. Also, how long was it before you recovered financially?

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Filed Under: Debt Management, Personal Finance Tagged With: bankruptcy, bankruptcy in the united states, borrow money, buy gas, chapter 7, credit, Credit Cards, debt, decisions, economic growth, file, filing, insolvency law, reason, reasons, title 11, united states code

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